Your pace, your level
A dating app without sexual content, if that's what you want
If you're looking for a dating app without sexual content, here's the short answer: in Naughty Singles you can play LIGHT only, the level about everyday life, and that's all you'll ever see. You'll never get a question from a level you didn't activate, and you're only compared with other people on the levels you both play. No desire questions, no pressure to go further, no awkward surprises.
We know the name might raise an eyebrow. Naughty, for us, means elegant mischief, the playful spark of getting to know someone, never vulgarity. And the deeper levels exist for the people who choose them. If you don't, they simply don't exist for you.
Why so many people want dating without the sexual side up front
Not wanting sexual content in a dating app says nothing about being prudish. Maybe you want to get to know someone before anything else. Maybe you're coming back to dating after a long time and want to take it slowly. Maybe your values are clear on this, or you just find it boring when every conversation drifts in the same direction.
The usual swipe-faces apps don't make that easy. They're built on photos first, which sets the tone. Openers get forward quickly, and there's no way to signal that you want to keep things wholesome other than repeating it and hoping it's respected. The result is fatigue: you spend more energy filtering than connecting.
How to use Naughty Singles without sexual content
It takes one decision at the start. The app respects it everywhere else.
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Choose LIGHT as your level
During onboarding you pick how far you'd like to go. Choose LIGHT and you'll only play cards about everyday life: habits, values, family, social life, travel, romance and more.
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Play your cards
Answer first-person statements with ME TOO, DON'T CARE or NOT ME. Your answers build your Match DNA across the 10 LIGHT categories. There's no bio to write and no desire questions to skip.
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Get compared only on LIGHT
Two people are only compared on the levels both of them chose. Even if someone else plays more levels, with you they're compared on LIGHT and nothing more.
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Receive first contact from your level
There are no likes. People reach you by sending statements with their photo, and those statements can only come from levels you play. Answering them is the match.
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Play In Sync, then chat
After the match you complete In Sync, a blind question game, on your shared levels. For you, that's LIGHT. Then the free chat opens, already built on real things you have in common.
Is LIGHT enough to find a great match?
Yes, and for many relationships it's where the real compatibility lives. LIGHT covers ten categories: daily habits, pets, drinking and smoking, fitness and health, family and kids, beliefs and values, money and ambition, social life, travel and adventure, and romance. Those are the areas that decide whether sharing a weekend, a home or a life feels easy or exhausting. Read more about the LIGHT level.
Your Match DNA compares category by category, in both directions. The categories match, not the sentences, so you don't need to have seen the same cards as someone. Your top then shows the real people who fit you best, with a compatibility percentage and why you'd connect. Photos stay blurred for everyone except the people who receive your first contact and your match, which keeps the focus on who someone is, not how they look.
If you'd like a little playful flirting without anything explicit, SPICY is optional. It's about attraction, chemistry and flirting styles. But it's entirely your call, and LIGHT on its own is a complete way to use the app. Here's how all the intensity levels work.
What LIGHT cards look like
Everyday statements, a little playful, never suggestive. These are real cards from the app.
LIGHTI plan my whole week on Sunday afternoon.
LIGHTI end the day writing in a notebook about how it went.
LIGHTI'd rather have a date at a dog park than at a bar.
LIGHTA Friday at home with a good series is a perfect plan.
LIGHTI'd rather have an honest talk than a spectacular but empty plan.
LIGHTI don't trade my principles to please anyone.
Dating tips when you'd rather keep it wholesome
Whatever app you use, a few habits help you date on your own terms:
- Say it early and without apology. A simple “I like to take things slowly” is clear, kind and attractive. The right person will find it reassuring.
- Choose daytime first dates. Coffee, a museum, a walk in the park: plans that make conversation the main event.
- Notice how someone responds to a boundary. Respect for a small no is the best preview of respect in general.
- Let connection lead. Shared humor, values and curiosity are what make time together feel good, and they're exactly what LIGHT measures.
- Don't confuse slow with cold. Warmth, attention and a thoughtful message show interest without any pressure. If slow is your style, see our page on slow dating.
Frequently asked questions
Is there a dating app without sexual content?
Naughty Singles can work that way. If you choose LIGHT as your level, you only play cards about everyday life, you never see questions from levels you didn't activate, and you're only compared with people on the levels you both play. First contact can only include statements from your level too.
Why is it called Naughty if I can avoid sexual content?
For us, naughty means elegant mischief: the playful spark of getting to know someone, never vulgarity. The app has optional levels about flirting, desire and intensity for people who choose them. If you don't, they don't appear for you and don't affect how you're compared.
Can people who play HOT or EXTREME contact me?
They can appear in your top if you're compatible, but you're only compared on the levels you both chose, which for you is LIGHT. If they send you a first contact, the statements can only come from levels you play, so nothing from HOT or EXTREME reaches you through the cards.
Will I get fewer matches if I only play LIGHT?
Your top is elastic: up to 25 people, sometimes fewer, based on real compatibility. Playing LIGHT only doesn't exclude you from anyone; it just means comparisons use the ten everyday categories, which cover values, family, habits and romance.
Is the app available in English?
Yes. Naughty Singles launches in English, Spanish and Portuguese at the same time, first on Android, with iPhone coming later. You can pre-register now to find out as soon as it launches.
